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30 Jul Advice Corner | Failure

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Hello, I would like to seek your advice on my current situation. I feel like a failure in life. Most of my friends got engaged, married or promoted and I couldn't do any of these. I feel like I missed something, I don't know what to do anymore or how to be happy. Ever since university, I tried to study hard to get a good job but I spend two years unemployed till i found one but my seniors don't want to teach me anything they just tell me to adjust ms- word documents or they explain something then I discover its wrong so they can act like heroes and intervene to save the day and put me aside. I spent 4 years studying electrical engineering to fill out ms-word documents!  I tried to find another job, but I couldn't get any. I reach the final stage then they refuse me. My colleagues keeps getting promoted and travel on the company expense and brag about getting extra money, all this leaves me bitter. I get extremely jealous when I hear about my friends or work colleagues' accomplishments. At first, I used to be jealous then I was able to move forward but recently I can't, I cry everyday and I can't focus on anything anymore I know that this is not productive but I can't help it. I feel very frustrated and sad  I just don't know what to do!
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